Giving the clitoris extra pleasure during penetration
Adding clitoral stimulation to penetration is like having milk with cookies: both are good, but they're so much better together. That's what Pairing is: a woman or her partner touching her clit while she's being penetrated--both are happening at the same time. For most women, the result is far more pleasure and better orgasms!
Kate
“A total game changer”
Leslie
“The hurdle”
Shiraz
“It's a party”
Only 18% of women have orgasms from penetration on its own. Compare that to 73% that orgasm by Pairing (adding clitoral stimulation at the same time). And the resulting orgasms are more frequent and more pleasurable.
Kim
“The right ingredients”
When they happen at the same time, clitoral and internal stimulation can actually amplify each other. They add up to more than the sum of their parts: bigger, fuller and more satisfying pleasure and orgasms.
Previous generations usually thought of “sex” only as a penis going in and out. So the “sex positions” they handed down to us only took that into account. But now that we know 4x as many women come by Pairing, isn’t it time to rewrite what makes a good sex position? The research shows the best positions make room for fingers or a vibrator to get into the action at the same time.
Her on top, leaning back enough so there’s room for a hand on the clit
Her on top, leaning back enough so there’s room for a hand on the clit
Many women say the best Pairing is when, each time the clit is approached, it’s touched with gentle, warm-up kinds of stimulation. This can be easy for a lot of partners to forget in the heat of penetration.
Angie
"Two different rooms"
Another bonus of having hands in the action is being able to give nonverbal signals to partners about how to adjust the penetration style.
Leslie
“Matching the penetration”
Maybe once or twice in a lifetime, a unicorn appears: a clitoral orgasm and an orgasm from penetration at the same time. The few who have done this several times talk about a technique called Double Edging: getting close to clitoral orgasm and backing away, then right to the edge of an internal (G-region or Deep End) orgasm and backing away again. By repeating the cycle, you can try to time it so both orgasms to erupt at the same time. It’s hard to achieve but fun to attempt!
